What to Do with Cremation Ashes in Colorado
Cremation has become the first choice for many Denver area families when the time comes to lay a loved one to rest. It is often more affordable than a traditional burial, it can be more environmentally friendly, and it allows for simplicity and flexibility in planning. However, many families who
choose cremation find themselves with a follow-up problem: what do you do with the ashes?
Ash Scattering
Many people specifically request that their
ashes be scattered in a meaningful location, making this an easy choice for some families. Other families may like the idea of scattering ashes but worry about the logistics. Fortunately, scattering cremated remains is less complicated than you might imagine.
Where Can You Scatter Ashes?
Ashes can be scattered on any private property with the property owner’s permission, and on most public lands like state and local parks. Different rules apply to different locations, especially areas near water, in designated wildlife areas, or in locations where it may be unsafe to gather. Before arranging an ash scattering service, it’s a good idea to contact the authority that manages the grounds to notify them of your plans.
Do You Need a Permit to Spread Cremation Ashes?
The National Park Service requires a permit for ash scattering and memorial services on land it governs, such as Rocky Mountain National Park or Colorado National Monument. The application can be submitted online through the NPS website. The fee will vary depending on the size of your intended gathering and the location you choose.
Other public lands are handled differently. State parks generally allow scattering, but you’ll want to notify the park ranger in advance to be sure. Land managed by the Bureau of Land Management and city-level and county authorities also generally allow scattering, but they may have certain rules specific to the property.
Whatever location you choose, it’s best to call ahead to notify them and ask about permitting or limitations. Most organizations are fine with an ash scattering service as long as you are safe, respectful, and do not disturb the natural flora and wildlife.
Burial and Internment
Ashes do not need to be scattered in nature. Cremated remains can also be buried, placed in a columbarium niche, or scattered in an ossuary. Many families find comfort in giving a loved one a permanent resting place at a cemetery or cremation garden. In many cases, the grave site can be marked with a plaque or grave marker, providing a long-lasting tribute and public testament to their memory.
What Is a Columbarium?
A columbarium is an above-ground structure built to hold cremated remains. Think of it as a mausoleum for ashes. The columbarium contains a number of individual compartments called niches. Each niche is designed to hold an urn. Some columbariums are designed for the urn to be visible; others place the urn behind a plaque or other marker.
What Is an Ossuary?
An ossuary is a dedicated site for the scattering of ashes. The term has historically been used for places where bones are deposited, such as the Paris Catacombs. But modern ossuaries are often in cemeteries or cremation gardens and are cultivated, beautiful locations for the scattering of ashes.
Scattering ashes in a cemetery is usually not allowed outside of a dedicated ossuary or scattering space. You can, however, purchase a burial plot for burying an urn.
Can You Bury Ashes in an Existing Grave?
It is often possible to add cremated remains to an existing grave. This is a way for family members to be buried together even if one chooses cremation and the other did not. A standard casket plot can usually accommodate up to four sets of cremated remains, or one casket and two urns, but specific capacity may vary based on location. You will need to coordinate with the cemetery to arrange for the burial and purchase space in the plot.
Compassionate Cremation Services for Denver Area Families
When a loved one dies, you will face many decisions: what type of funeral or memorial service to hold, how the body should be interred, what to do with ashes, what kind of urn to purchase. It can be overwhelming. But you are never alone in this time of loss. Horan & McConaty is here for you every step of the way. Reach out any time at (303) 745-4418 with questions or to begin arranging services today.
