Thomas Frederick Messenger

The family of Thomas (“Tom”) Frederick Messenger, 78, is deeply saddened to announce his passing on March 26, 2026. Tom was born in Denver, Colorado, on October 31, 1947. He graduated from Regis High School and Colorado State University and later earned his master’s degree from the University of California, Berkeley. Tom spent the majority of his career with the Colorado State Health Department, where he served as Director of the Consumer Protection Division. Throughout his career, he was also actively involved with the National Food and Drug Association.

Tom met Susan Nusbaum in early 1970, and they were married in 1971. Although Tom and Sue did not have children of their own, they were deeply admired and loved as parent figures by many children throughout the years, especially their many nieces and nephews. Both retired around 2000 and spent the next decade traveling, golfing, and enjoying time at their home in Montana. Tom lost Sue in 2010 after her fiercely fought battle with ovarian cancer.

Family was the center of Tom’s life. After returning from California upon completing his studies, he and Sue moved in temporarily with his grandmother and great‑grandmother. They soon realized how much joy their presence brought and chose to stay, especially as it became clear that their beloved Bertha needed care. Throughout the years, Tom and Sue generously dedicated themselves to looking after Bertha, and eventually, Tom’s mother as well. Tom provided Sue with unconditional love and support throughout her illness and continued to offer that same devotion to his mother during the remainder of her life.

After the loss of both Sue and his mother, Tom chose to live his life as he knew they would have wanted him to. He continued to golf, travel, and spend as much time as possible in Montana. He was also deeply committed to keeping family bonds strong, maintaining close connections with his siblings through regular phone calls and shared meals whenever possible.

Tom had a remarkable gift for making people feel special. He treasured his relationships and, without ever being overt, had a way of letting others know just how valued they were in his life.

Those who knew Tom will forever remember his generosity, his steadfast love for family, and his gift for making others feel truly seen.

Tom was preceded in death by his wife Susan, parent’s Frank and Elizabeth Messenger, and brother Frank Messenger. He is survived by his sister, Nannette Colaizzi, and numerous nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews.

Services celebrating Tom’s life will be held on April 25th at 11:00 a.m. at Horan & McConaty Mortuary 1091 S Colorado Blvd. followed by a luncheon at Gallo Italian Supper Club , 3470 S Broadway, Englewood, CO.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to one of the following charities.